What you said ?
It's quite interesting and serious how we remember and recall what we listen, but how easily we forget what we said. We count other peoples words, but we don't pay much importance to our yellings. Let me get it to you a little simple. Imagine somehow you got involved into a verbal spat with someone. You'll notice that a quarrel begins often with 'what you said'. And as we are one side of the argument then often we are also the one who claims 'what you said'. Do you recall how many times were you the one who stopped the argument or surrendered after crossing the limit of your tongue? Never or countable on fingers. Now recall how many times were you the one who pointed fingers on the other person for what he or she said instead of thinking about what you were yelling? I hope now you got the point. ...